Is it a turn off if you mention other girls you have been with and if a girl thinks you are a player?

if she asks you tell her if not wait until she does. she says you have a shot dont blow it by being a player. why dont you be honest with her as to how you feel about her.maybe she already thinks your a player and thats why she has'nt said anything specific about you meeting. don't play games with her sounds like shes way above that and can pick games out easily.